Arranged Marriages

Arranged Marriages
Relationships are the most important things in life. And marriage is one of the most important relationships. Having said that, it becomes even more important who arranges the marriage, whether it's w e or someone else have different opinions coming from different age groups from different parts of the world. Marriage we can see is a commitment of spending the rest of our life with someone. This has a great impact on our life , career and personality. So, should we let our parents decide so much for us? To start with, it can be answered positively. They are more experienced and well placed in the society. They better understand people and thus, understand us better we do sometimes. Moreover, being our parents, they want the best for us all the time. It may be seem to be as simple but in reality is not. The choice of our life partner should have say in it. Of course! how can we marry someone who we don't know? Is it possible to stay along with the person and share everything that we have in our life? From this point of view it may not look sensible at all. Considering that all of us have the right to decide for ourselves once we are grown up and matured, the right of the choosing our life partner should be given to us and no one else unless of course we forfeit it to someone else.

Coming back to the arguments, we can see around us and observe how many 'love married' have been successful? In some parts of the world they stay in but unfortunately in many other places they fail to develop into life-long relationship. The mostly young couples complain of misunderstandings, concealed truths about each other and making a 'hurried and emotional decision', concealed mentally suffer because of this and their performance goes down. They go on to face social and psychological problem and life-long problems in some cases. Young and immature men usually get attracted towards beautiful and fascinated young girls. So, they went to many them. Sometimes, these girls may have many other boy friends and vice versa. Furthermore, since in Pakistan we have joint family system, our parents may not like this thing and they may not to live with her. Therefore, these marriages usually end in divorce. In short, we can say that arranged marriages are best.